Well in expressions sound like, why it always me??, why it happend to me?, why me??, why? why? why?
Dude, be patience isn’t as easy as it sounds. People said patience have a limit, but wait, if that so, maybe “patience” according to that thought is a way to keep calm and doing nothing against any problems, or in javanese term “nrimo“.
That is a big misunderstanding.
Definition of Patience in Islam absolutely, is one of the noblest qualities of the believers. It is the single best character trait that a person can have. When Allah mentions the traits of the people of Paradise and what made them entitled to it, He mentions patience. Allah says: “Peace unto you for that you persevered in patience! Now how excellent is the final abode” (ar-Ra`d 13:24).
Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (a) said: “Verily, Sabr is to faith what the head is to the body. The body perishes without the head, and so also when Sabr goes, faith also disappears.”[Al-Kulayni, al‑Kafi, vol. 2, bab al‑Sabr, p. 128, hadith # 2]
When Imam ‘Ali (a) was asked about faith (iman), he replied: “The structure of faith is supported by four pillars: Patience (Sabr), Conviction (yaqin), Justice (`adl) and Struggle (jihad). Then he explained further: ‘Patience comprises of four attributes: Eagerness, fear, piety and anticipation (of death). So, whoever is eager for Paradise will ignore evil temptations; whoever fears the fire of Hell will abstain from sins; whoever practices piety will easily bear the difficulties and hardships of the life of this world and whoever anticipates death will hasten to perform good deeds.’”[Al-Amidi, Ghurar ul Hikam wa Durar ul Kalim, hadith # 2897]